Throughout the course of my formative teenage years my mother's favorite question was, "Who the hell do you think you are?" How exactly is one meant to respond to that? Furthermore, was I really supposed to know? Failed attempts at answering resulted in a variety of responses. Among them: my being sent to my room (or running for cover, it's all about perspective), being grounded, her telling my dad, my phone privileges being revoked and once ended with a vintage, ten pound iron sticking out of the wall. My cat-like reflexes prevented bodily harm. I was a smart ass. Through the eyes of the mother I now am, I see how I could have single-handedly driven her to the brink of insanity. Genetics, a chemical imbalance, substance abuse and poor planning helped her complete the trip after I left home.
As a grown woman I am far more sure of myself. I think I have a pretty firm grip on who I am, what's important to me, what makes me tick. She doesn't ask anymore but if she did this is what I would say,
"I don't know it all, like you said I thought I did, but these twenty-five things I know to be true. They may not define me as a whole but being a sum of all of my parts, it's a good start."
(In no particular order)
1. I don't believe in coincidences, everything happens for a reason.
2. I have a lifelong secret crush on Kenny Rogers. I can sing "The Gambler" by heart. "You never count yer money when yer sittin' at the table...they'll be time enough for countin' when the dealin's done..." Okay, stop laughing. I also know "The Devil Went Down to Georgia" and "Sweet Home Alabama."
3. There is a good reason I was a dancer and not a singer.
4. The last birthday present my Daddy bought me was a guitar. I promised him I'd learn to play it.
5. If I were a doll my accessories would be: a yoga mat, a pair of fairy wings and a can of "kick ass."
6. My sweet-souled sister has been my best friend our whole lives. Jaime is an inspiration and all round quality human being. I adore her and miss her beyond words.
7. I have unfinished business with a few people in my life, amends to be made, truths to be told, responsibility to be taken. I am a work in progress.
8. Being a good mother is an enormous responsibility I take very seriously. My children inspire and humble me every day. I would fight a Grizzly bear for them...and win.
9. Nine is my lucky number.
10. I don't own a cat, she owns me. She sleeps with my sweet baby Jake every night. I have a dog that owns me too. I didn't really even like dogs with the exception of my snorting, wheezing, farting, dearly departed Pomeranian, "Emily." (May she rest in peace.) but somehow Coco, my chocolate lab has endeared her eighty five pound ass to me to the extent that I no longer find myself threatening a rehoming. I can't imagine not tripping over her while trying to cook dinner. She's a crafty one, that Coco.
11. I'd rather be Velma than Daphne.
12. I am not short. I am not petite. I am "fun sized" dammit. In a parallel universe I am 5'10" and built like Wonder Woman. I had a roommate like that once upon a time. I miss her.
13. I am writing a book about a really crazy time in my life and hoping the proceeds will spring me from the middle of this corn field.
14. I left my heart in San Francisco and will always call "the city" my home.
15. The first time I ate Wasabi I thought it was avocado and being with a kitchen full of people I thought were WAY cooler than I was I choked it down rather than look like an ass. I was going on "better to just appear like a dork than open my mouth and prove it." Eventually, they all knew me for what I was, takes one to know one...you may have been there.
16. I taught myself to crochet. Now I'm working on peeing standing up. JUST kidding.
17. Sometimes people tell me I'm funny. That's good, right?
18. I am married to a man who really knows me...and still loves me. I had the word "Angel" inscribed inside his wedding band because I truly believe he saved me, more than once.
19. I'm a joker, a stroker and a midnight toker.
20. If I ever run away I'm going to become a lavender farmer who raises miniature goats.
21. When I am lucky enough to catch the opening of "Ellen" I ALWAYS dance with her.
22. I have seen a full rainbow over Mt. Fugi from the bullet train.
23. I know what pride tastes like.
24. I make a mean meatloaf, drink the juice left in the pickle jar and recycle everything I possibly can.
25. I am well rounded. If you need proof just look at my ass.
Sunday, August 15, 2010
Who do you think you are?
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